One’s Heart
A person’s world is only as big as their heart.
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We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope. .
forgiving and forgetting.
I would like to hear your opinion on forgiving and forgetting. When people hurt you: do you forgive and forget? Or do you just forgive but don’t forget?
People who tend to be seen as good – usually forgive and forget. But I don’t think that this is a question of being good or evil – I think the point is about being just. So maybe the tendency to forgive and forget those that have hurt us is not necessarily a good thing. Because if we don’t do anything to people that hurt us – they will probably continue on hurting others.
This is the way I see it and I would like to hear you about this subject and also your own experiences.
mujhe sochne de
merii naakaam muhabbat kii kahaani mat chheR
apnii mayoos umaNgoN ka fasaanaa na sunaa
zindagii talKh sahii, zahar sahii, sam* hi sahii
dard-o-aazaar sahii, jabr sahii, Gham hi sahii
lekin is dard-o-Gham-o-jabr kii vus’at ko to dekh
zulm kii chhaaNv meiN dam toRtii Khalqat ko to dekh
apnii mayoos umaNgoN ka fasaanaa na sunaa
merii naakaam muhabbat ki kahaanii mat chheR
jalsa-gaahoN meiN ye vahshat-zadah sahme aNboh
rahguzaaroN pe falaakat zadah logoN ke giroh
bhook aur pyaas se paz-murdah siyaah-faam zamiiN
teerah-o-taar makaaN, muflis-o-beemaar makeeN
nau’e-insaaN meiN ye sarmaayaa-o-mehnat ka tazaadd
aman-o-tahzeeb ke parcham tale qaumoN ka fasaad
har taraf aatish-o-aahan ka ye sailaab-e-azeem
nit naye tarz pe hoti huii duniyaa taqseem
lahlahaate hue khetoN pe javaani ka samaaN
aur dahqaan ke chhappaR meiN na battii na dhuaaN
ye falak-bos mileiN, dilkash-o-seemeeN baazaar
ye Ghalaazat ye jhapaT_te hue bhooke baazaar
door saahil pe vo shaffaaf makaanoN ki qataar
sarsaraate hue pardoN meiN simaT_te gulzaar
dar-o-deevaar pe anvaar ka sailaab ravaaN
jaise ik shaayar-e-madhosh ke KhwaaboN ka jahaaN
ye sabhii kyoN hai ye kyaa hai, mujhe kuchh sochne de
kaun insaaN ka Khudaa hai, mujhe kuchh sochne de
apni maayuus umangoN ka fasaanaa na sunaa
merii naakaam muhabbat ki kahaanii mat chheR
Glossary:
talKh = bitter
sam = poison
dard-o-aazaar = pain and troubles
jabr = opression
dard-o-Gham-o-jabr = pain, sorrows and opression
vus’at = open space, big open space
Khalqat = the world
jalsa-gaahoN = the places of celebrations
vahshat-zadah = inflicted with fear
aNboh (or amboh) = crowd, mob
rahguzaaroN = roads
falaakat-zadah = mistry struck, evil struck
giroh = crowd, mob
paz-murdah = withered, decayed
siyaah-faam = blackened
teerah-o-taar = dark
makaaN = houses
muflis-o-beemaar = poor and sick
makiiN = residents
nau’e-insaaN = mankind
sarmaayaah = reward
mehnat = work
tazaadd = contradiction, inconsistency
aman-o-tehzeeb = peace and civilization
parcham = flag? (and from the dictionary: the fringed bunch or tassel of a spear or lance, or of a pair of colours)
qaumoN = sects
fasaad = fights, arguments
aatish-o-aahan = fire and iron
sailaab-e-azeem = great flood
tarz = fashion, style of conduct, manner of way
taqseem = division
dahqaan = villager
falak-bos = kissing the skies
mileiN = mills
dilkash-o-seemeeN = beautiful and delicate (seemeeN means made of silver)
Ghalaazat = roughness, rudeness
shaffaaf = clear… (white / clean?)
qataar = line
anvaar = light
Muhabbat ki haqeeqat – II
muhabat aik afaqi jazba ha. is k beshumar roop hoty han. ik insan ki dosray insan se muhabat,dosto ki muhabat,behan bhai ki muhabat, ma baap ki muhabat, aulad ki muhabat, aur SAB SE BARH KAR MAKHLOOQ KI APNY KHALIQ SE MUHBBAT. ye sab muhabbaten han jo insan karta ha, karta rahy ga. Ghor karo to in me koi be-gharz nahi ha. insan kitna hi be-gharz ho, magar kisi dosray insan se muhabat karty huay mukamal tor par be-gharz nahi ho sakta.koi gharz na ho to tanhae door karny ki gharz to ha. Akyla to koi nahi reh sakta. insaan mashrati janwar ha. to taluq rakhny ki gharz to aik bari sachae ha. DOSTI KA BHI YAHI HAAL HA. koi HAM KHAYAL, jo acha b lagta ho. is se mil kar bat kar ky dil khush hota ha. Gharz to Hue na. aur ikhtilaf ho jaiey ,,,, sangeen nouyat ka ikhtilaf ho jiaiye to ADMI is dost ko chor dyta ha. koi aur dost talash kar lyta ha. Bhai dost se bari zarurat hota ha. Ak bohot apna, jo har kary waqt me sath rahy…. hamara dukh bantay… tasaali dy. Lakin aj kal bohot kamm bhai bhai hony ka farz pora karty han. aur muhabbat , ye to bohot mushkil se milti ha. ya milti hi nahi.
Maa baap se aulaad ki gharz hoti ha, bulkay is ki had nahi hoti. aadmi ko itna kuch milta ha maa baap se. wo in se muhabbat na kary to kia kary aur KHUDA ki MUHABBAT! wo to ha hi MOHTAAJ ki muhabbat jo wo is se karta ha, jo is ki har zarurat pori karta ha. wo maa baap se BARH KAR KHAYAL RAKHNY WALA HA. ZARURATEN PORI KARNY WALA HA. Bss MAA BAAP KI AULAD SE MUHABBAT SE SE MUKHTALIF HA. Magar nihayet be-gharz hony ka bawajood gharz se bilkul paak wo bhi nahi ha. BAAP ko aulad se aik masoom c gharz hoti ha k wo is ki nasal ko agay barhaiye ga, marnay k bad is k nam ko zinda rakhy . Haan maa ki muhabbat bilkul be-gharz ha, is ka bss chaly to aulaad ka har dukh khud ly ly aur usay dukh se mehfooz kar dy.
KHALIQ KI ALLAH KI MUHABBAT hi sab se khalis , sab se be-gharz aur baak muhabbat ha, kiun k isay kisi sy kuch nahi chahiyey. wo sab kuch banany wala ha har chez ka malik ha. koi usay kuch dy nai sakta, isay na hi zarurat ha. lakin humen us ki rehmat aur barkat ki zaruat ha.
Muhabbat admi ALLAH se kary ya is ki makhlooq se, wo ibadat hoti ha. shart ye ha k wo Paak mohabbat ho aur muhabbat karny wala har pal ye yaad rakhy k isay aur is k mehboob ko ALLAH ne banaya ha… Ehsaan kia. Aur yahi nahi, in k dilo me muhabbat b isi na daali, warna wo yek-ja nahi ho sakty thy. Ye to ALLAH ka ehsaan ha. Is KHAYAL K SATH MUHBBAT IBADAT HO GE. AUR IS K BAGHER HAWIS.
Muhabbat ki Haqeeqat – I
Muhabbat karnay waly ko apny mehbob se koi gharz, koi talab nahi hoti. wo to apnay mehboob se badlay me kuch b nahi mangta. muhabbad bhi nahi, iltfat ki aik nazar bhi nahi. wo to bss muhabbat kiye jata ha , kiu k muhabbad aik khud kar jazba ha, jo dil me khud ba khud ubharta ha. to muhabbat karny wala to muhabat karny par majbor ho jata ha. wo koi shart aed nahi karta. ye muhabat nahi k mehbob jawab me muhabat na dy to usay chor kar kisi aur se muhabat kar lo. YE to PHIR karobar HUA.
Upper wala khayal ki tarah kisi ko muhabbat bhi somp dyta ha.
muhabbad pak aur buland jazba ha. aur ye mehdood bhi nahi. ma bayty se muhabat karti ha, Banda mabood se muhabat karta ha. muhabat kisi ko kisi seb ho sakti ha. KISI MARD ko KISI AURAT se ho sakti ha. LAKIN Muhabbad ki Bunyad JISM KABHI NAHI hota. Is ki buniyad achy ausaaf bhi nahi hoty. Mehboob ka zahir bhi nahi hota, kiu k muhabbad lafani jazba ha. Admi borha ho jaiye to JISM dhal jata ha. Muhabbat kabhi khatam nahi hoti, chahy koi burae b samnay a jaiye. chahy Jism dhal jaiye, chahy Insan mar jaiye.
Insaan dosray insaan se sirf muhabat hi kar sakta ha, lakin insaan ko ALLAH se muhabbat karni chahiye kisi fani shye se nahi, KABhi ISHQ nahi. kiu k isht to Sirf Aik MABOOD ALLAH se hi ho sakta ha. Aur jis ko ho jiaye wo khushnaseeb ha.
koii ummiid bar nahen aatii, I am left with no hope at all,
koii ummiid bar nahii.n aatii
koii suurat nazar nahii.n aatii
maut kaa ek din mu’ayyaa.N hai
nii.nd kyo.n raat bhar nahii.n aatii
aage aatii thii haal-e-dil pe ha.Nsii
ab kisii baat par nahii.n aatii
jaanataa huu.N savaab-e-taa’at-o-zahad
par tabiiyat idhar nahii.n aatii
hai kuchh aisii hii baat jo chup huu.N
varna kyaa baat kar nahii.n aatii
kyo.n na chiiKhuu.N ki yaad karate hai.n
merii aavaaz gar nahii.n aatii
daaG-e-dilagarnazar nahii.n aata
buu bhii ai chaaraagar nahii.n aatii
ham vahaa.N hai.n jahaa.N se ham ko bhii
kuchh hamaarii Khabar nahii.n aatii
marate hai.n aarazuu me.n marane kii
maut aatii hai par nahii.n aatii
kaabaa kis muu.Nh se jaaoge ‘Ghalib’
sharm tumako magar nahii.naatii
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I am left with no hope at all,
No possibility to reach my goal,
The Day of my death is fixed,
I am so very anxious that I can not sleep all night.
Though I know the reward of obedience and worship,
But I have no tendency for it.
I am silent for a certain reason,
Otherwise I can convince you with my words,
Why I shouldn’t cry,
For when I don’t, she asks about me,
My heart is burning, though you cannot see the spot,
But O my doctor, can’t you smell my heart burn?
I have reached to a certain state,
From where even I cannot find myself.
I am dying (Waiting anxiously) for my death,
I don’t know where the hell my death has gone.
With what face you will go to Ka’ba, O! Ghalib,
You should be ashamed of yourself while thinking to go there
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Rahye Ab Aysi jagha Chal kar Jeha’N koi Na Ho, Humsukhen Koi Na Ho Aur humzaba’N koi Na Ho
why i?
Anyone can become angry – that is easy, but to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose and in the right way – that is not easy. -
:’(
Tum bhi Khafaa ho log bhi beraham hain dosto
Tum bhi Khafaa ho log bhi beraham hain dosto
Ab ho chalaa yaqein ke burey ham hain dosto
Kis ko hamaarey haal se nisbat hai kyaa karein
Aankhein tu dushmanoun ki bhi purnam hain dosto
Apane siwaa hamaarey na hone kaa Gham kise
Apani talaash mein tu ham hi ham hain dosto
Kuchh aaj shaam hi sey hai dil bhi bujha bujha
Kuchh sheher ke chiragh bhi maddham hain dosto
Is shahar-e-aarazuu se bhi baahar nikal chalo
Ab dil ki raunaqein bhi koi dam hain dosto
Sab kuchh sahi ‘Faraz’ par itanaa zaruur hai
Duniyaa main aisey log bahut kam hain dosto 
I miss you
I miss you
I haven’t seen you in so long
And yet
Your hold on me is as strong as if you never left
I don’t cry as often
I don’t try to prove myself as much
Aren’t you proud of me?
I go about my daily life
As if you don’t still have all that I am
But you know that I have always worn a façade
Don’t let them see you cry, right?
Don’t let them know you are weak
Stand back up
Keep on walking
Because even if my heart and soul are dead
My body didn’t die
Like it should have
It’s the cruel irony of it
The world ends
But it doesn’t
It keeps on going with
Or without you
And what good would I be
To just lay here
Like I want
That would just hurt others
And that is the last thing I should do
Besides
We don’t always get what we want
No matter how much we need it
People die every day
Children are left hungry and unloved in the streets
And here I am
Self pitting a broken heart
I have all the opportunity in the world
And yet
That’s not what I really want
It’s funny how things work
The grass is always greener, right?
I’ve been selfish for too long
I’ve forgotten the feelings and needs of others
And that’s what got me here
Not just with you, though mostly and especially
But everyone I ever cared about
Or cared about me
Out of every thing in my life
That is what I regret
Putting myself before others
Well I can’t change the past
Only the future
So I can’t dwell on it
I can only learn from it
Cherish the good
Forget the bad
But keep the lessons learned
So the past is behind us
And the future before us
My hand has always been out for you to take, always will be
And even when you’ve refused to take it, I’ve dragged you by the collar
I’m not letting you go
I promised
I miss you.
I have too many wonderful memories to hold on to
There are too many that can come
And even if we forget them
Even if they never come
They existed
They happened
We loved
We lost
But that was just one battle
This war isn’t over
And there are so many more we can win
I don’t want to fight alone
I don’t want to drag you into a battle that is not your own cause
Maybe our path together ends here
Maybe it goes on side by side for the rest of our lives
What ever happens
What ever they throw
I always loved you
I always will
I miss you
Success
“I call people ’successful’ not because they have money or their business is doing well but because, as human beings, they have a fully developed sense of being alive and are engaged in a lifetime task of collaboration with other human beings – their mothers and fathers, their family, their friends, their loved ones, the friends who are dying, the friends who are being born.
Success? Don’t you know it is all about being able to extend love to people? Really. Not in a big, capital-letter sense but in the everyday.Little by little, task by task, gesture by gesture, word by word.”
Ralph Fiennes, b.1962 Oscar-nominated British Actor
